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This ram usage is normal for 4.3 because 4.3 requires minimum ram of 1gb and recommended ram is 2gb( as said by Google) this rom is actually made for xperia z and z1. Sony has ported this 4.3 for xperia t, TX ,v and SP. So don't worry about the ram usage,